DEAR YOUTH: MARRIAGE IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY.
BY BAMIDELE AYOBAMI LUKMAN..
Don’t repeat the same mistakes made by most of our elders the moment they decided to choose their life companion. Undoubtedly, multitude number of youth of today place a heavy reliance on money. They erroneously belief that money is everything. To them, money is the pillar upon which every marriage lies upon. Without money, the marriage is bound to collapse.
Our contemporary world of today, most especially in this modern days, we are living under the shackles of money. Accordingly, we belief that when there is money, their will be love. Suffice to say, without money, finding love is practically impossible.
I believe that Money only add more flavour to relationship. Love is not all about money, it can even be the architect of misfortune to marriage sometimes. Little wonder I concede with the saying that not all wealthy home are peaceful ones
Frankly speaking, It’s high time for we youth to start thinking of a decent life by getting Married with the little you earn. fornication shouldn’t be allowed to gain ascendant and same should be allowed to go into extinction.Don’t wait to be a millionaire before you secured your future. It will be proper to give birth at early age in other for you to last longer together. If you choose to be wealthy before you get married, believe me tour future is not assured. You might still not succeed at your target year, so start your life early, with consistency you will grow.
My father said this to me: _When i was 25, i was talking about making billions before I marry . Many years later, billions didn’t come, yet no kid no wife… I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can i really take care of her? But right now She’s married with four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. they worked hard and succeeded together. I failed, so please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don’t wait.
Don’t repeat same mistake made by our elders. I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn’t money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. With a well planned life they are happier.
Trust me it isn’t money, what is our problem? Build mansion, buy the latest Car in Town, marry Sharon stone type, but still we don’t have those things we dreamt of , and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them never!!!
Please don’t be 60 years old and your kids will still be in their 20’s..what are you supposed to be at that age? Is their grand father.please young men, take my advice seriously . marry, don’t be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well
Don’t think you will get every thing before you settle down. The lord can change your life in a blink.
BAMIDELE AYOBAMI LUKMAN aka Talking Pen is a Nigerian Poet and content writer. He is also an Editor, here at Winsala Muses Ltd.
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